Ok so whatisis is right, he is on so much pain to he cant see straight.

I am not good at legal stuff my first H screwed me over... and I know you feel terrified at the moment but his behavior is eerily Familiar...........

is is that he cant accept the deal b/c he is breaking the boundaries and is still talking to the Mystery person?

Please calm down honey... it is going to be ok it really is. Even though at the moment it does not seem this way.

My H pressured me into things and would act crazy/crazier cause he had OW~ she was pressuring him...
I hope I am not making this worse...?

I care about you and what happens to you so I need you to get calm and remember that we are here for you.. thNKFULLY MY HUBBY IS OUT OF TOWN FOR THE NITE SO WE CAN "TALK"
~Ali