At this point I'm so tired of being patient and waiting and validating his inept conduct, I'm feeling drained.
((((((Oh Stella)))))) I so know what you are going through. The only difference is that you and H will finally be together in a couple of weeks which is not my case. It is obviously very difficult for the MLCer to be alone. Once H has you with him, he'll untangle himself from the spider's web. H has chosen YOU not Spider.
BTW don't apologize for venting - this is the one place to do just that.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz