Thanks K. Today I took the Ds to look at furniture for the house. It was stressing me out and my acid reflux that hasn't been a problem all summer has started acting up the past few days. (Stress contibutes to it.) I told H this on the phone, don't know why, he said just make a list of what I want and he will buy it. I said no, I'll do it. I mentioned that I had done the house all alone and he said yes I did a good job with that. H asked if it was ok to stop by this evening as he wanted to get one of his bikes. I said that was fine as I had the Ds one of his nights this week.
After H left he called Ds phone. I have stopped asking what they talk about but for some reason I asked today. D said he called to tell her they could call anytime they wanted or if something was bothering them. WTF? That is crazy coming from the person that won't talk to them about anything.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008