Hey Sara, its been very busy, W watches kids during the day and when I get home she leaves, and on weekends they are with me all weekend.
Just have to get throught this month, because W will not be with them all day (they will be in school) so I expect her to want them more on the weekend, we'll see.
W called me at work today, I wasn't at my desk, note stated call W ASAP urgent - I thought something was wrong, they went to the pool today. I call cell phone no answer, I call house no answer, wondering whats going on, try cell phone again, she answers, water bill in her name and its late, doesn't want to damage her credit record. I say I'll take care of it and hang up, broke out in laughter, everything ok with kids, urgent is her credit record.
W spotted with OM, by old friend of W's, he tells W's friend who was her maid of honor at our wedding, I get a e-mail from her today inviting me and the kids over to a BBQ. Before I respond back I figure out that she was told about W with OM and tell her the whole story, she is sick about it, I tell her I'm fine, that if she talks to W she will get the sugar-coated version, she thanks me for telling her whats going on because she was hearing rumors. She is having an adults only party, told her I'll be there, I just needed enough warning to make sure W isn't working so W can watch the kids.
2008 is a rebuilding year, get D finalized, get house in order, get all of W stuff out of the house, get through halloween and christmas, and start 2009 with everything in order. I cannot wait until 2009
Have a busy weekend planned, Sunday after church, to the pool, BBQ swimming, checking out all the hot babes. Meeting a couple of friends up there, have a birthday pool party at friends house that day also, I'll be tired, Have softball play-offs Monday, My team made it to the final 4 out of 16 teams.
Thanks for checking in on me everyone
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
