It sounds like a cop-out, that its too hard for me. What kind of person does this to their spouse ? NOT ME. I appreciate all the advice from everyone. I tried being cold, I tried being nice, I tried detaching, I came across as uninterested. She THINKS she wants OM. we'll just see if she does. If I love her, I can't imprison her, trap her, force her to be mine and in my presence.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
