I did those things at the beginning of my h's MLC. Yes, condoms! I was cracking up when I put those on the nightstand. My h came over and had to walk by them to use our bathroom. He saw them and you should have seen his face. We don't use condoms....
glam, you are right, they will notice when it's time. Focus on things for you and the kids. It's funny but my h "woke" up he did mention the condoms, overnight bag and all the other little things that I did.