I am not out to upset you or make you mad at me. I just say proceed with caution. She gave up OM and that is WONDERFUL but she would have needed to do that regardless. Just a week or so ago you said you were still going to Allentown, now you are not. I am just trying to say all those things I mentioned would have shown a strong commitment from her that she was going because of you, she was willing to see what was important and follow through on it. Now you don't have those markers.

I won't discuss it anymore. If anyone deserves happiness it is you.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory