Treese you are so right. That is the approach. Do it for you. I buy Victoria Secret, wear dresses, wear boots, have my hair done, nails done, not for my h, not for anyone but me.

Maybe one day they will sit up and take notice!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"