the face thing throws me because she is claiming I"M a abuser because I grabbed her wrist once and left a bruse. now I have seen her out with her " NEW" friends and the one guy took a fake swing at her because she busted him in a lye. they were all laughing about this but it just didnt seem right to me that shes takeing this. her personality is a 180 from the woman I have known for 8 years.
now dont take me wrong I did yell and i was selfish a lot in out marrage. I take credit for this and i am trying every day to show a diffrent side. but she has this huge sence of entitelment right now that bordeds on a insane. In a way i am scared for her comming over because i fear how she will take the fact that i feel she is just as abuseive to me now as I was to her a year ago. the only differance is I didnt realise because she never talked to me ( I know poor ecxuse. but if I knew then what i know now i feel we would stull be together). but even after we fought i would try to make it better by cuddeling or at least talkeing about it. she is abuseive and selfishe and wont even talke to me after. and is in a huge sence of denile that ANY of her actions could be wrong.
