Lol. Not to sound patronizing...but 3 months is NOTHING in DB-land.
You need to do the best thing for your DBing.
If you need space, maybe you should get the house sold. If you think she needs more space/time to make up her mind, then get the house sold. If you think the changes you have made that she sees nearly every day might be the best DB path, then stick it out.
Whatever you do, make sure you have a goal in mind and an idea of how you are going to get there. Don't make an emotional decision. I know you already know that.
I do.. and if the house ever gets a serious offer, I will deal with it then, right now the market is horrible.. it went from best for sellers in the country to one of the worst.. day by day see how it plays out.
I think I am ok the way things are right now.. getting bills paid and so forth.. i'll be prepared when things get decided..
i can't believe it took this to get me to where I am.. in great shape and so on..
