losing sunshine but gaining happiness either way

[LosingSunshine]

So W took possession of her new place today and called to tell me and also let me know that she didn't have anytime to think about the shared residence plan but will on Sunday. She also said everything was overwhelming which is why she couldn't think. I just listend and validated.

Silly me forgot the diaper bag so I'll have to swing by the house while she is moving crap out. Hopefully I'll get there before her friends show up. Taking the kids over to a friends for dinner until she's done and then we I get back, my friends will help me move some stuff around (bringing up the antique dining room table and a couch from downstairs/storage). Not too concerned about not being at the house while she's doing this. Some may disagree but everything is replacable and I already know what things should be where and will be checking tonight and tomorrow to make sure they are still in place.

So, first night without W in the house ,actually not, LOL, but the first official night of her being moved out. And I have no feelings about it whatsoever. Not overly joyous about it because of the kids and not sad at all. Just sort of glad the day is here and almost over with.

I am looking forward to tomorrow as she'll have the kids over at her place and I can finally GAL for the first time in about 2 weeks (okay, I did go to the racetrack last Saturday evening but that was only a few hours). Going to do my chores, play some golf and go out to dinner with some friends. Will probably come home and blast my music that she never liked and shoot pool downstairs. It'll be fun.

So, off to pick up the diaper bag. But one more thought, today was the first day where I actually felt like I was back to normal at work and have felt great all day...and thanks to the WAW weight loss program, I also have not looked this great in years. Ha! Should be a great weekend. Take care everyone and I'll be back on later tonight after I get the kids in bed.

Chris