Quick one - remember for each situation there are usualy several explainations. As an LBS, we tend to focus on the most negative one. Rememeber you don't know why he did this - it could be some olf school mate from years ago he always hated has tracked him down! It really could be perfectly innocent.
Control and dropping it - the slightest thing can be seen as control. You really have to drop everything. In my sitch, even me making H a cup of tea was seen as me trying to control him at one point. The situation you are living in now is not normal, both your emotions are very raw and heightened. Don't believe everything he says. Even if he feels it's what he really wants now, it may not be later. Raw and heightened emotions ... it's a bit like being really, really drunk/stoned. The slightest things take on far more significace than they really deserve in the cold light of day
Take it easy ITS, I for one thing you're doing well at this. You are on the DB master path x
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
