Quick one - I agree with Rob. I have a quick snoop every few months. I haven't ever found anything to be suspicious of, and to be honest I remind myself that snooping is only seeing a small bit of the story. If I snoop, I'm not in possesion of the full facts and I don't know what my H was thinking/feeling at the time. I try to take everyone at face value right now.

And - before I go out on the razz, the low points in your holipops sound just like the kind of thing me and my H went through for a bit ... mis-understandings needing clearing up, me focussing on signs that he was reverting back to the alien, a few low days. it's all normal. Don't panic! \:\)


Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05
Seperated Sept/Oct 05
Oct 06 - H recomitted
July 11 - I am now a WAW.