Well I left my laptop at home today, packed it but forgot it at the front door. H stopped in and saw it there, reset my FB password again and then was upset that I was making fun of him to my A@@hole friends. What the actual case was that on Tuesday when he watched D he sent kisses out on FB to men that I know(and a few I don;t) he told me the one he sent them to. I sent him an email that just said, about the kisses, not from me, guess I should change my email and my FB password so a person cannot "forget" their password an get it reset by email.
He replied simply I knew it wasn't you cause when we(he and his wife) drove to get coffee his car was at your house and when I got home there were the kisses.
H said no wonder you are taking your laptop so you can hide these things and make fun of me to your friends.
I was calm, this time. I explained again, I am not hiding anything but I am taking my computer because you refuse to be respectful to me. I am not making fun of you to my friends I am defending myself when you try to embarass me. He told me he will not touch my precious laptop again.
I said too much but I told him there are very few things that are precious in my life, I have lost 2 of them and my computer is not on the list.
He asked what 2 things, and I said my husband and my family.
I also admitted to him I have been posting on here again, he asked and I cannot lie. I know it is not his right to invade my privacy or even know what I am doing but when i am asked a direct question I need to tell the truth(that is the advantage he has always had over me).
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009