sorry for going dark on you. I kept reading your threads, just couldn't bring myself to post.
Here is my update.
I have daily interactions with H. I call, he calls. We speak about D17 and her college and the details of our move. He sounds warm and friendly but shuts down when/if I bring up our R. Today I called and there was OW's damn dog barking! I asked: is she there? He said yes. I couldn't help it and asked him if he's going to decide anything EVER. He said,yes, I will, please wait, I'm coming in 19 days and we'll sort it out, I promise. At this point I'm so tired of being patient and waiting and validating his inept conduct, I'm feeling drained.
I spent the whole week praying, asking for clarity. I'm just hoping that my prayers will be answered soon.
He is planning my move back home AND he's carrying on with Spider at the same time. Never allow someone to be your priority, while allowing yourself to be their option. How true!
Sorry for venting again:)
Last edited by stella_k; 08/01/0807:21 PM.
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
