Jen - I'm actually hoping to have some kind of R talk with him this coming week. My D leaves Monday for a week long rafting trip and that will gives us some quality time for talking. I haven't had the energy the last few weeks and I didn't want to rock the boat too much because if things went to south, I didn't want him to cancel on her for her games. She really counts on him going. (Moreso than me) Not to say we haven't had bits & pieces of R talks, just more generalized and not specific.
I just went back and read through my posts and realized I left out something important. My H and I are now officially D'd after last week. He kept telling me he was going to call his L to have it put on hold, but he waited too long. However, he still calls me his wife and still refers to himself as my H. I have just ignored this fact for the time being. But like you said, we need to have a serious talk and soon. I really need to think out what I want to say and how I want to say.
