hi lost- yes- you have to be very careful who you surround yourself with. most poeple cant do what we are doing. and they project their own fears onto you. it is not only frustrating, but damaging. unless you are very clear about what you are doing, it can put a downer on what you are doing and mess up your PMA. they do care about you- but they tell you what they want to hear...not what you need to hear.
i wouldnt talk with those poeple about the R anymore.... i have learned this lesson too....
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