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[glamgirl]

YR did you ever feel so overwhelmed at times and that you just missed your h so much and how did you get through those days?

I am so sad today and miss my h and my M so much. I just want to feel his love and know that we are together for the long haul.

This is so hard with no real understanding as to why?

Did you ever fully understand YR why you had to go through the pain in your life and M now that your h has returned.

[Lissie]

Just passing by to say Hi sweetie.

Glad things are great.

Have a great weekend.

[yellowrose]

Lissie

Hi sweetie. I hope everything is fine with you!

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[yellowrose]

Glam

Overwhelmed is an understatement!!! I would be fine for a long while and then an knot would form in my stomach and I would fall apart.

I guess me and my h just took each other for granted. You know that we would always be together. I really think we both needed a wake up call. We needed to learn about ourselves. It was well worth it in the end with me and h. My life couldn't be better.

I know my he was hit hard when his mom died suddenly abd that sent him reeling. He had to figure out what was important in his life. I know how hard it is.

Hang in there, Galm.

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[Treese]

YR....I did exactly the same thing.....

I guess I thought my H and I would always be together no matter what....boy was I wrong....and the wake up call...well...I'm dealing with mine but is he dealing with his...

OVerwhelmed is what I feel alot....with all the every day stuff and missing him on top of all that....it can takes its toll on you...

[glamgirl]

Thanks YR for your encouragement.

Treese I am overwhelmed on a daily basis, with the house, financial stuff, the kids it does all take it's toll.

YR were you ready when your h came home or were you thinking I am not sure I want him home?

[Treese]

Good questions Glam!!!

[yellowrose]

glam

Honestly, my h burned me so many times with his coming and going, I wasn't sure I wanted him to come home. Sure I did but in the back of my mind I was thinking what if it doesn't work out and I have to go through it all over again. I had told myself I stood for so long at least I needed to give it my all one more time. I also said that if he left again that would be it. I had grown stronger and knew that I could manage without my h if I had to.

I also questioned myself did I still love my h as I did before and could I get over the A.In some of my later threads I had said that I didn't have the strong feelings as I once had with my h. I didn't know if I loved him as much as I once did. Does that make any sense?

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[glamgirl]

That does make perfect sense. How did you get that love to grow the way you write about your R now?

[yellowrose]

glam

My h and I both worked on it together. He knew how I felt because I told him. Just as I had to wait for him to get through is problems, he had to wait for me to get through that. What was great is that he understood. It worked!

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