Well, I delivered my letter in persoon last night.....to total silence. We sat there and held hands a while. He fought back tears. I told him I wasn't there to force him into a conversation, that I just needed to be there when he read the letter. After about 30 minutes I left. I told him that if and when he wanted to talk, I would be here. Now, my letter was different---a letter to let him know I know about OW........something I had to do for me..........but, he read it at least 3 times. I know he's thinking.........I am still expecting the worst, but I did what I needed to do for me.
I don't think I could have done it in person like that, good for you having that courage ..