Thank you for the book recommendations. I will bear them in mind. I'm bogged down with text books for my degree at the moment but when I get a minute I will see if I can find them.

I'm under no illusion about my H anymore. He is not coming home. However if I can make a better me (and hopefully become a sex goddess for someone else in the future ) then that has to be good right?

Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15