Yes, I'm seeing an IC, but honestly, she just wants me to get into the mindset of divorcing him and all that goes with it. Not much help in DB. I did tell her about DB and she 'argued' with me about it. I just stuck to my convictions, though.
That's hopeless. Cut her loose! She might be good at her job, but she's trying to take you the opposite of the way you want to go. If you're sure you don't want a divorce, what's the point of paying her good money to nag you about it? Say you wanted to hire a personal trainer to lose 10 pounds. She looks you up and down and says "We'll start on supplements and powerlifting right away, with a 4,000 calorie/day diet. I'll put 25 pounds of lean muscle on you in two years!"
You coming back to this person? She might be good enough to get you those gains, but you already told her you want the opposite.
