Treese, I have learned that NO matter what you do whether it's a Victoria Secret bag, staged dinner, perfume, it will not matter to your h until they are ready for it to matter.

I had bought some Victoria Secret underwear and h saw that I bought them and he said why did you need to go to Victoria Secret? My response was I needed some underwear.

Yes he noticed but it's not like it's going to bring him home.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"