Treese, I have learned that NO matter what you do whether it's a Victoria Secret bag, staged dinner, perfume, it will not matter to your h until they are ready for it to matter.
I had bought some Victoria Secret underwear and h saw that I bought them and he said why did you need to go to Victoria Secret? My response was I needed some underwear.
Yes he noticed but it's not like it's going to bring him home.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"