Guy's perspective: Actions speak louder than words. (Michelle: believe only half what you see and none of what you hear). He's conflicted and confused. Obviously has no idea what "leading" is. If this is "trying", give me a break. But he still really, really wants to be with you, sexually and otherwise. That's very good. And I think you handled the stalker thing well. I'd leave it alone unless it happens again.
Honestly, I still get ticked when W won't agree with my opinion, like on the music stuff right now. But I start to respect her when she doesn't back down. Remember that.
And I'm so jealous about the Jelly-Belly factory
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK