Quote: the only thing I can offer is...well at least w is being 'honest' about her feelings...
Yeah, although it seems that she is mainly honest right after I've caught her being dishonest. When she's being dishonest about being in contact with the OG, that's when she's also dishonest about her feelings.
Quote: but I do know that there are some obvious steps that HAVE to happen inorder for you to get anywhere down that path and that is og HAS to go...the longer they stay in contact even if not physical there will still be something pulling at her from him..and when she does finally end contact for good there will be a grieving period over him that may be just as hard for you to deal with as having her still in contact with him.
I hope, hope, hope that the contact has ended forever (as of August 23), especially as I intend to follow through on my ultimatum if it hasn't (and at some point I will be snooping, I'm sure). Maybe the latest display of emotion from her has something to do with the grieving period (Sunday was just over 2 weeks since). I can't help but wonder what our situation would be now if the contact had not restarted. Got to think things would be a lot better now if she hadn't. The grieving period is supposed to take 3-4 weeks. Their contact restarted 4 weeks after the big goodbye in late June, so she "should" have been just about done with that. Maybe if a little more time had passed she wouldn't have chosen to get involved again. Water under the bridge.
