sorry things are less than perfect for you right now...the only thing I can offer is...well at least w is being 'honest' about her feelings...
Quote: (Yeah, darlin, there are times I'd like to have a mistress too, ya know?)
I had to laugh outloud at this one!!! but on a more serious note...when I first discovered h's a (ok so then it was just a "friendship" he hadn't reached a point where he would allow me to call it an a) and we talked of d and other things..I did ask if he would like an open marriage....you should have seen his face light up...as if he actually thought I'd be open to that...huh! doubt he'd be open to it if the tables were turned!
anyway...I don't know how to get out of the muck..but I do know that there are some obvious steps that HAVE to happen inorder for you to get anywhere down that path and that is og HAS to go...the longer they stay in contact even if not physical there will still be something pulling at her from him..and when she does finally end contact for good there will be a grieving period over him that may be just as hard for you to deal with as having her still in contact with him.
