That's really sad about H - but I hope you see that the "happiest day of your life" baloney is just one more example of It's All About Him Syndrome. I truly wish he would get a clue, a Really Major Clue, and turn himself around to be the happy, worthwhile person he could be. In the meantime, remember, his feeling regret is not the same as him changing his ways.
We're all very proud of how you've handled yourself during this very tough week. You are strong and wonderful, and it is going to get better soon for both you and D4. (((((Sue)))))
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!