Question: does she not like the music at all? Or just the church stuff? Is there some kind of "middle ground" where you could still do something that you OBVIOUSLY ENJOY, and she would not have the religious/other objections to it?

While I agree it is a 180 and a "fix" to a "problem" from your W's perspective, it makes me very uncomfortable to see you give up something you love.

(((Jon)))

I hope this weekend goes well. Remember, no expectations. She is obviously thinking about the R, but I'm not sure she SHOULD come back yet because I am not sure she is ready. She has wavered a lot, but she needs to settle solidly into commitment before you guys move forward again IMHO.

Oh, and re the text. Did you ask her if she wants to do something that day? It seems like she is feeling you out or trying to drop a hint that she hasn't forgotten and maybe wants to celebrate?

Last edited by MichelleLT; 08/01/08 04:35 PM.
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