Quote: She can't let her A go so maybe you should encourage it. Ask her to leave.
I gave that a lot of thought and almost did. I told her that if she wanted to go to him, I wouldn't stand in her way, wouldn't beg her to stay. I asked her why she didn't. She said that she wanted to be with me. True or not, it's damn hard to kick her out when she says that.
Well, the ultimatum is out there now. You're right, that follow-through is necessary, hard as it would be. I think to this point she's pretty much banked on knowing that I would always give her one more chance. I sure hope she takes me seriously now, though.
