H4H, so sorry you are going through this! I know it's hard to believe but really when my H moved out, things actually got better for me. Less stress, less headaches, just a feeling of peace and serenity that I hadn't had for a while living with him. They are emotionally checked out already, and it was a relief for me not to have to face that every day. You deserve to have a wife that loves you, is nice, and all that!!! You're a funny, wonderful, loving person and you deserve the same in your life!!! ((((H4H))) Karen
