Definitely change counselors. You need someone that will work with you, not argue about it.
I chose not to take the meds. I didn't want any trouble getting off them and was afraid of the effects. So much better to just drink a glass of wine once in a while. : ) A joke, but I do like my wine.
Your H didn't know how to handle you or the guilt? Trust me, the WAW's feel guilt and they don't want to. They feel bad when you cry or get upset.
I'm pulling for you to DB. The IC that argued with you is very low in my book right now.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.