Quoting sage:Out of curiosity....did you start checking things again because you felt something different coming from your w? Or just because?
Mostly, just because. Despite what I thought was a lot of progress in our R since June, I've still felt a little paranoia about the OG once in awhile, and it's been a little worse lately because school for the kids is starting up again next week and she'll have plenty of time and opportunity to carry on an A, if that's what she chooses to do.
Quote: Well, I can totally relate to the depression. Don't think this is trite but your w's behavior has NOTHING to do with you and your DB success. It has everything to do with her. There is NOTHING in your post to indicate "fraud" or "failure".
I guess I now question how I've posted and had suggestions for others that I THOUGHT had been things that worked for me. Turns out maybe these things have not, in fact, actually worked. So maybe I don't have anything worthy to say to anybody about their situations. Worse, maybe I've given bad advice, with the arrogance of someone who thinks he knows it all. Nonetheless, Sage, thanks for your kind words.
