T,

Your H seems MLC and VERY confused.

My response is that you should keep GAL,and not mention any thing about D. Lovingly stay detached.
Look at what has been working and move forward with that in your decision making.

You might want to revisit him staying there as it is allowing him to cake-eat.(right now he has both of you allowing him to not have to work so much at deciding what he needs to do) You set a boundry and now he is being allowed to cross it. Only you can answer that one though.

Do what you need to for you.

JAK


Last edited by jak58; 08/01/08 03:35 PM.
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