You would be shaking up her world for one. Secondly, you would be taking a stand for your marriage. How often do you see your son now? Do you have legal protection set up for that? Let her move, make her uncomfortable.
Are you going to a counselor? You need to get out of this depresion.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory