Out of curiosity....did you start checking things again because you felt something different coming from your w? Or just because?
Quoting eskb: I haven't posted about all this until now because I've been very depressed about it, and I've been trying to wrap my mind around these latest developments. Also, I feel like a DBing fraud and failure.
Well, I can totally relate to the depression. Don't think this is trite but your w's behavior has NOTHING to do with you and your DB success. It has everything to do with her. There is NOTHING in your post to indicate "fraud" or "failure".
Quote: P.S. No lectures regarding snooping, please. Actually, I think I'll start a thread on that subject soon. Sage, get your guns ready for that. Talitsa, dcr, you guys too.
No lectures forthcoming. You're doing what feels right to you and that's AOK.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
