Quote: Yeah, OK, that was unfair of me. I guess I thought the situation was like your H's phone hang-up a few days ago actually very different, I deal with h's exuse of it being too hot or needing to strech out for not "cuddling" with me or sitting on the same couch, but the "phone call issue" was a big one becuase it was more than the fact that he hung up on me, it was the fact that I needed someone to come with me to doc apt to watch the kids or to just watch the kids and he who took off from work one day to take ow to an apointment (mind you no kids needed sitting there) and that was how he "got caught" I was frustrated with the fact that he didn't even offer and when he "sensed" my frustration and I admitted to the "direct" cause of it...he handled the situation by getting pissy with me and eventually just saying "I gotta go" and hanging up...and not bothering to address it directly at a point later that day or the next until I brought it up and actually foolishly all I brought up was the fact that he hung up (can ya sense I'm not really done with that "issue" yet? - that this was not something I should have to bring up. in this case I think you did need to let her know that you were interperting her actions a certain way for clarification. She oughta just know that an apology was needed. If it weren't for the fact that I'm gone in the morning before she wakes up, it would have been addressed then. In retrospect, it all seems a little silly and childish of me kinda, sorta, but not really.
Quote: Regarding the cuddling, I know I shouldn't take her rejection of it so personally. It's just that the situation used to be somewhat reversed, where I was the one who didn't like it and she did. Don't know really how that changed over the years. things just change over the years, I wouldn't worry too much about it as long as you have open communication about it. wich it seems you do.
Quote: some of the best solutions are the silly ones
