Crying is good, she doesn't do that and she needs to you are right it does help heal and releases the fear...
Tough love hurts as much as I want to catch her I know I can't damn I hate this...
Yes it does hurt, but at the moment that is all she has to draw from, cause she doesn't trust me and I do respect that I haven't earned that trust back yet...
Once I took the focus off of me and put it back on her she did calm down, I am happy she actually said she needs to see a C.
The other good thing is she mentioned NOTHING about divorce in all of that so at this point will keep hanging on...