Thanks Phoenix - Great advice, because I honestly did have that mindset and I think now it was definitely the wrong thing and may have led to her feeling so weird around me. I'm really conscious of the Mr Fix-it (you well know that was a big problem of mine!), so I really try not to.

The thing about my family is mind boggling. She has alienated so many people that even her OWN family doesn't feel comfortable calling her, so how can she expect mine to?? Honestly, it's been hard for me personally because my family is upset at her, and I really don't want to hear that. She's my W and I love her forever and if you are truly my family, you need to support me fully on that or just back off completely. In reading some other threads, it seems that many people go through the same thing. Just another on a long list that keeps our minds on this 24/7.


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.