Hey Ken - Thanks for stopping in here - I caught up on your sitch yesterday. You are so right about the people in this place. Kind of amazing that they all have spouses running. Pretty scary.

Anyway - great advice on the hugging. I will keep it up. Since she told me on Monday how she wants separate again, I feel like we have gotten closer again, except this time it feels a little more real. It seems she is really trying with the kids.

We get along fine, but it's hard because when I get closer to her like this, I want more - so it's a mental battle to back down. Fortunately I'm getting smarter about that.


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.