I didn't pay enough attention to her and I just let everything slide by me and didn't show her I loved her enough. I've been blaming her for being a quitter and blaming the OM for butting in. But it got this way because of me. If I go dark and detach from her or go cold I will lose a possible friendship with her. The friendship would be for my sons sake of course. He is in good hands with both of our families. But she is going to be with who she wants to be with. I have to let go
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
