M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Can we get back on topic here, please? Mike, I'd like a Lemon Drop, please, and since you've all obviously got a head start, make it a double. Good football is good, no matter what your colors (said the girl who never had to actually do the up-downs for hours on end). Grits? Eggs? WTF...stay on topic people! Peace. Hey Mike, please stop by, could use some help. "MIKE!" By the way, get off the coaster and find a more enjoyable ride.
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Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots
Bethie. Grits are meantto be eaten with Butter and sugar. Instant grits are an insult to any true southerner, if it don't have lumps dont eat it.
Manny leaving the Sox is the best thing for the sox, he is a piece of trash. When you make 20 million a year, you damn well better run out a ground ball, ungrateful piece of chitt.... Poor dodgers, their season is screwed.
MIkey, no one likes crazy, well sort of, we love Bethie and she's a wee bit Loco.
Hello everyone. THings sucked last night with STBX. I'll update later when I have time. It was not very pretty. I saw crazy..Mikey don't like crazy.
I posted new pictures from my son's wedding out in the alternate universe if anybody is interested. Some really good shots taken by my big sis..
Mike,
Hope you are doing well, don't know what crazy is but it does not sound good.
The photos of your S wedding are really nice. Glad you and your D had a great time despite your STBX trying to ruin it for you.
And yes I should know better that to think that I would find respectable people on this board especially ones from below the Mason Dixon line. Two pages about grits UGH.
It's tough living under one roof in the midst of divorce. I don't know how you or anybody else do it.
Emotions are a powder keg. When things were bad with my oldest and I'd feel the anger of frustration welling up, I'd excuse myself saying I was getting emotional and would return to the topic when I was in a better frame of mind. When emotions start flying more and more comes out, kinda of like verbal diarrhea. I say, Imodium, please.
So I get off work yesterday and head over to the place I'll be living to do some mud work on the sheet rock. I'm over there about my usual 3 hrs. and leave to head home. I get home about 8:00pm...now to preface all this let me give a small explaination before I go farther since I'm the new kid over here.
Every Saturday I take the trash to the convience station, we don't have local trash pickup in the mountains where we live. This past Saturday I got up to do that and then had a few errands to run before my son's wedding. My D was flower girl in thr wedding, my STBX was not going to the wedding but was a little miffed because she was not included. She proceeded to raise holy hell because I was leaving, so I decided to sit tight there all day to diffuse the sitch and shut her up as to keep her from ruining mine and my D's day and the son's wedding. Since I stayed home, trash does not get taken off. I mentioned to her to take it on Saturday..but hey, what do I know?
So the trash is piling up. The cans are full in the garage, she starts piling it up around the cans..in bags folks, in bags..anyway she piles 4 small kitchen bags on the basement stairs landing...there is no more room for the trash so when I go in, I just step right over it...there is no other choice..she won't take it even though she passes by the station on the way to work, the station is closed on my way to work and it's closed by the time I get home..so I'm planning on taking it this Saturday...
well let's just say she did not like me "just stepping over those bags of trash on the landing"..Now, I did not put the bags there, she did. There is no more room for the trash at the moment.. and before everyone says EWWWWW nasty..it's not like that. This stuff is double bagged, it does not stink, it is bagged up, it's not nasty...just because I'm from Tennessee does not mean I'm a redneck.. let's just say I got hammered about this trash..Let's say I did not validate her feelings. Let's say I defended myself..she said I needed to move quite a few times. She also said some very nasty things..damn nasty..
So there you have the reasons for it..
I saw crazy last night...she's f'in crazy as a loon.
It appears she wants a D but does not like the idea of having to do all the stuff at that house by herself.
I'm sure the sitch will do nothing but get worse. it is deteriorating rapidly.
I did not lose it last night. I held myself in check.
I slept ok last night and am good today.
And yes...grits suck.
and if you have more posts on this thread then bring me a beer, any beer, Bethie drank all mine.
I'm getting maligned left and right here. Just how would you know that I drank all the beer? What about that stupid Ian, kml & Gypsy? SugarandSpice was here, as was Distressed, lodo, fig, Brig & Sadmilitarywife. The last person I saw was that lush goldeylox sneaking out of the back door with something in her hand. Listen, far be it from me to point a finger but it is what it is!
M,
Clearly your ex is conflicted and that is because she is very unhappy. She doesn't want to be married, but she still wants something from you, and I don't mean just taking the garbage out. Problem is that she herself isn't sure what that is. Her life is a mess and she is feeling it, so she takes it out on you. Her job now is to figure out how to fix that and maybe that will never happen. Unfortunately, as you know, you can't help her. No matter how badly we may want to or might have tried, inner peace is hers to either figure out or to keep going down this very lonely and sad road. Your job is to take care of yourself and to make a happy life for yourself and your daughter.
I have to say that you did a great job in dealing with her. Looks to me like you've learned a lot!
Oh and Ian....."a wee bit crazy"???? Don't underestimate the me. I'll have you know that I am MUCHO crazy. That's why I always have a smile on my face!
Just how would you know that I drank all the beer?
Well, Gypsy don't drink due to medication she is on. Ian, KML,lodo, brig and SMW prefer the hard stuff..fig likes the fruity stuff. Distressed is too busy working on his new business to be drinking anything. I gave Goldey a beer for screaming my name and making me feel wanted, S&S was drunk when she got here.
that leaves just you and me. I had a Landshark and a long island iced tea and a few hits off this moonshine jar. I had a 12 pack of beer. I drank 1, threw one to goldey as she left. That leaves 10..if you point a finger then there's 3 pointing back at you..
I was forewarned about you before I ever set foot in the door!! and thanks for the compliment..
once again thanks for coming over Bethie. all jokes aside..I appreciate your help.
Two pages about grits UGH.