OK.

I think the horse is beaten, no?

Anyway....I do want to let you know that I DO understand what you were looking for ... and that her answer struck you as wishy-washy and was therefore unsatisfying (hurtful? disappointing?). I just thought you should cut you BOTH some slack...

As for the idea of renewing vows...I think it's an awesome idea for the future but I'm feeling as though it may be too soon? I also think (and this is just my own warped sense) that it's the BS that should initiate something like that...not the LBS (wouldn't that be the ultimate in pursuit?). I guess optimally you guys get to the point where having a discussion about it feels natural.

Sage


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