Don't worry about the sarcasm Sugar, I do the same thing. Finding things to laugh about thru all this is partly why I'm not locked up either! A few months ago, my lawyer couldn't believe it when I told him H was cheating on his girlfriend with his wife.
I used to be in C after the initial seperation. We talked about C together in Feb, and went to one visit, but he left again. In order to go again, we would need to get the authorization from the insurance. I'm all for it. And seeing as he doesn't want anyone to know about the baby, I'm gonna need some way to talk about how I'm feeling. I told him the other day, it was his decision...staying involved, signing over rights. And I would stand behind him with whatever he decides. Also I told him that there's no way I know how he's feeling, and I'm not even gonna pretend that I do. Because of that I don't know what to say or do. But if he needs to talk, or just someone to listen, I'm here.