Sorry Neil, intense and sexy isn't such a bad thing. I have to say, I never cared for Star Wars, but as a confirmed Trekkie, I've always said I was a female geek.
The book thing. Hmmm, maybe it seemed like a good idea when she asked you and now it hurts to think of them reading it around her? My advice is to let it go. Don't mention it again. Let it roll off your back even though it is confusing.
Remember, the WAW doesn't want to feel guilt. LOL.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.