Ok .. I am waivering .... my H needs me to be positive cause he is going thru persnal hell right now,, his Family of origin ( he just told them all off 2 days ago after years of them taking advantage of him ) and work.
I am trying like hell to have PMA~ and not take anything personal.. yesterday he even said to me ... I wasnt going to tell you ( the falling out fight over the phone) but I am going to now...
and then he had to go ( his boss called ) so we never finished. Is this a man thing or just my hubby? He tends to keep his Family disagreements to himself.. and then I am somehow Miraculously supposed to knwo he is upset about that and not take on any of his negativity...
Do I even make sense.... I am going to try like hell to be positive but at present it seems impossible.
I told him for years his Family was using him and then after years of fighting about them I just threw my arms up and gave up.
It was all about $...
YUCK!
~Ali
Any thoughts?????????????? Male translation please? What to do? Help....
