I so wish there could be a book on communication like the retro program. It is so nice to spend 10 mins a day just talking to W thinking about nothing but our feelings.Now don't get me wrong, these are not feelings for each other. they are our feeling about events, situcations just feelings that don't nessasarly involve your partner. Even though it is against the rules the 10 mins keep on getting a little longer. C is a form of Dialoguing but it is more of a listen to your partner and then responds with YOUR feelings. In Retro you listen to your partner and acknowledge their feelings. Not right or wrong.
Have you ever had a problem that you could not figure out and while you were asking somebody about it out loud it becomes clear and you answer your own question? During these Dialogues that is what happens you start to really listen to your partner and HEAR how they feel and why they do things. And in your explanation of YOUR feelings you sometimes see why becasue of how somethings make you feel YOU do things
Dr LOve
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
