While I am happy for you, I guess I am the 2x4. I think your plans scared her and now that you have so easily changed them, she may not feel the urgency that she once did.
I won't go deeper because it isn't my intent to rain a thunderstorm on your happiness just a drizzle with caution.
kat In case you forgot...it hasn't even been two weeks yet.
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory