Good work sitting down With H and telling him what bothered you... That is where all the trouble starts when people DON'T do that. Allot of problems are not what people say but what they don't say. Sometimes one word could mean so many different things. During one of our Dialogues I used the word "Were" in describing how I could depend on wife... I said “...bla bla and what attracted you to me was that you were stable and I could depend on you." Though there must have been 100 words in the letter the one that stuck out in wife’s mind was the word "were" she asked "does that mean that you can't anymore?" This was not what I meant. And I then explained it to her. If she had not brought it up. She would have totally misunderstood my message. It’s all about Communication......
DrLOve
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
