Jak and Lanzo, Knowing that out there in the world there are at least two people (and others in the shadows) rooting for you who understand your situation makes a big difference.
I don't know if I'm prepared or not to move into intimacy. I do know that I'm more prepared than I've ever been.
We meet with the financial planner again today to invest some of my W's windfall and to problem-solve the debt issue.
My W commented that she is grateful to have a H who dances with her. She said that (unknown to me) that ladies in the dance community are jealous of her for having a dancing H. My stock has risen.
I've been invited to her private lesson with the #5 West Coast Swing dancer in the country.
August is going to be an interesting month. This may be the month we turn the corner.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."