Today I have to travel to get D16 at D21's apartment...it's a 2 1/2 ride...and I hate driving that far.....but it will be just me and my son on the way up.....
I didn't sleep well....at all.....I hate when that happens....cause now I will be tired for the ride....
so...YR....if you were to plant something in someones car...you know to creat mystery....what would you plant?
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I'll stick it between the seats so it looks like it fell there...I'm on it....and I will spray my perfume in there....OMG...love it...
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
what are you doing,treese???? just curious and laughing at the same time.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Just making sure he doesn't forget about me....I'm not going to go overboard....just a bag....that's it....bad idea?
Wait you gave me the idea....LOL!!!
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
i had a victoria's secret bag and some sexy underwear just purchased laying around.
when the kids were at camp one year, i even had two steaks sitting in the fridge. on the first day they were in the fridge not cooked, and on the second day, they were both partially eaten and a half-empty bottle of wine was in the fridge.
he came over both days to let the dogs out while i was at work but do you think it phased him? nope, not that i could see.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I too did that. I put some condoms on the night table and he noticed them when he came to visit one time. I also put an over night bag on the bed with a few sexy things in there and he asked me what they were for and I told him I was going away overnight. Seeing his face was priceless. Just be careful that it doesn't backfire on you.
This is funny. Go with the Victoria Secrets thing!!
Treese, I have learned that NO matter what you do whether it's a Victoria Secret bag, staged dinner, perfume, it will not matter to your h until they are ready for it to matter.
I had bought some Victoria Secret underwear and h saw that I bought them and he said why did you need to go to Victoria Secret? My response was I needed some underwear.
Yes he noticed but it's not like it's going to bring him home.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Treese - me and my kids are driving to my hometown----or at least where I spent 6th - 12th grade------for the weekend. H lived there all his life. As you know we started dating when we were in high school. I am planning on staying with H's best friend and his wife. We double dated when in high school. I told her all that is going on and I know she's shared it with her H. I don't know if that's right or wrong. I was hoping H would come along, but he insists he has work. I will not dwell on the fact that I think this is OW's weekend without her kids........H's mother still lives there and I will make sure we visit her as well. It'll be tough, but gotta do it.......
H just stopped by unannounced. I guess to hug and kiss kids goodbye, knowing we were leaving for the weekend. He initiated some small talk----but of course no hug and kiss for me.........
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
I talked to my H's best friend also but I was also friends with him forever.....of course the BF knows my H's OW also and calls her a HO...He checks in on me quite a bit but my H has never contacted him since all this happened...ashamed I guess...
Have a nice visit.....
my H's OW's XH...(got that)...told me when he has the kids so I've kept track so I know when he will see the kids....it's right on too....my H spends nights at her house when she doesn't have her kids....Blah!!!!
And I don't get hugs and kisses anymore either....14 months now....but i am better....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
