Letting go is letting them do what they are going to do and you getting on with your life. Your focus is you and your son right now. If moving back home makes her more uncomfortable, tough. she mad her bed let her lie in it. She has no reality in her face right now, just everything nice and convenient. She won't have to change at all the way things are. Throw her off balance and take your life and your home back.
Do you see the difference?
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory